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MEN are not for sale!

A married man is a happy man...HOG WASH!

It's time to fill the "VACANCY!" Have you noticed, it is so obvious, it really is.

Any guesses, come on just one, give it a try.

Porn "DOES NOT EQUAL" men!

Guys this is a wake-up call, women you need to pay attention as well.

On the Dr. Phil show, the other day, a young man and woman were discussing getting married and the man's addiction to porn.

It wasn't until she moved in with the man that she realized his addiction to the temptations of the "LUST LORDS!"

The young man really didn't see anything wrong with his habits of porn. Never mind the disconnect or the wall it created "INSTANTLY" in their relationship.

IT ISN'T REAL!

Back to the vacancy. Ok, look around, how many sites can you find that support men in a "HEALTHY WAY?"

Look around, how many sites can you find that support women in a "HEALTHY WAY?"

It doesn't take long to figure out our society is way "OUT-OF-BALANCE!" This has got to change.

Lust "DOES NOT EQUAL" attraction!

Women are on a roll, a lot of great things are starting to work, after so much effort. Having a daughter I am so thankful that she has quality female role models available to her.

She isn't locked into a certain gender biased role and I see this getting even better with time.

What about men?

Men can communicate, men do want to be connected. Men want to be heard and they want to listen.

Men want intimacy, just like a women!

In the movie, "Are We There Yet?" there was a funny line that, for me, was also quite sad.

As Nick put's on his "look of intimidation" the off duty pharmacist says something to the effect "I have been married 38 years you can't intimidate me."

Once Nick heard the comment he knew he didn't stand a chance.

Is it funny, sure. Do both men and women get it, yes. Is this really the commentary we want to echo what it's like to be married? I won't go any further, this is a whole other topic.

Marriage doesn't make a man happy, it is "COMFORTABLE!" The relationship with their wife is where the magic happens. Women, you think you should have the undivided attention of your husbands and that just isn't the case.

Men are being aggressively marketed...

...and it doesn't have anything to do with being a "GREAT HUSBAND" or a "LOVING PARTNER!"

The average man is to "NUMB" to "FEEL!"

Money and protect...that's it!

Men are not taught to use all their storage, memory and brain power, for to much more than "EARNING A LIVING" and "PROTECTING THE FAMILY!"

If your a woman and this is enough, then "STOP RIGHT HERE," go find another blog. I wouldn't wish this for any woman I could think of...

...don't wish this on any man.

There is work to do, a whole lot of work.

Where would you start?

With love,

James

405-521-8609
James at ALifeOfPossibility dot com

PS: If you care about this, let me know, post a comment.  ¶ 9:46 PM